MNK99
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---NOt on VAR (yet), but for like 10 yrs, any time I relapsed NF (which ... is a lot), it hurt mood, anxiety (even focus) for 1-x amt of days.
--THIS does not happen to every male friend I have (obviously), but it does to me.
---> Some ADD guys I know and have read about too. Not saying, it's all ADD... but ---> I just feel more stable anxiety, mood, confidence in choices (i.e. less self doubt), maintaining NOFAP. And fighting and urge to fap... happier (after 21 or so days).
-I doubt it will hurt (a ton), but life's easier with constant state of mind / stable emotions.
-I can think of 2 married friends (so realistically no reason to fap... outside of other things), who say "they're better off without it".
-A sexaholic friend, who's had (testicular) surgery 3x and slept w/ like 1000 women +... He doesn't believe in Nofap... but, maybe he'd get structure with it... who really knows?
-I'm just mentioning... I mean everyone's different... For some no difference at all. I think it affects men more than they think though, same addiction pathways as (some) hard drugs.
-After 18-20 days, a minor relapse does nothing to me mostly... still happy, confident, outgoing, etc (i.e. less anxiety is maintained). ---of course prolactin effects and serum test is there.
-Also, not saying you don't have structure, you obviously do... doing well for a 25 yr old, man!! Esp, considering poor health state before bc of fin. ---but for ADD or not, doing really well, I'd say.
-ALSO, always every major gain... for me, brought times of more anxiety, and other issues (like insomnia), digestion changes.
-After like 20 days of insomnia (not up 20 d straight, but pretty bad),... better urology? WHY?? I don't know.
--SOUND crazy to some... but I think the beauty is in 300-1200 days. -- THIS IS EXTREME, and hard for me... and likely most kids/men who grew up with the net and instagram, and hoes everywhere, and all kinds of shyt, BET, etc. 90 days is decent. Repairing Dopamine takes longer than that for me (previous substance use, exercise addiction (feel good opiates etc there I think).
---I'll try that and yeah some PFS gains, even a lot at times... but more importantly, I'm thinking about LIFE after PFS, and in spite of everything before at times too.
--YEAH, relapsing didn't stop R-Andro, 4-Andro, etc from working, nor RU (if someone did it 90 x in a row, certainly bad for a person). Even sex 10-12h in a day would mess up a person, esp with reversing shrinkage (and pain assoc.) with that.
--BUT*** still results.
--NOFAP was easy on fin several weeks lol... but that's a different story (pain etc). Before and Later, actually pretty hard still.
---AGAIN, this is only possibly important for guys with MAJOR addiction issues... a tiny bit of an addictive personality, who cares really (I think).
---I mean I quit coke like 3-5 yrs, but still think about it... Only after 3-4mo do I not think about and even disliking alcohol takes several days of sobriety.
-Number of days don't matter, everyday is Day#1.
--THIS does not happen to every male friend I have (obviously), but it does to me.
---> Some ADD guys I know and have read about too. Not saying, it's all ADD... but ---> I just feel more stable anxiety, mood, confidence in choices (i.e. less self doubt), maintaining NOFAP. And fighting and urge to fap... happier (after 21 or so days).
-I doubt it will hurt (a ton), but life's easier with constant state of mind / stable emotions.
-I can think of 2 married friends (so realistically no reason to fap... outside of other things), who say "they're better off without it".
-A sexaholic friend, who's had (testicular) surgery 3x and slept w/ like 1000 women +... He doesn't believe in Nofap... but, maybe he'd get structure with it... who really knows?
-I'm just mentioning... I mean everyone's different... For some no difference at all. I think it affects men more than they think though, same addiction pathways as (some) hard drugs.
-After 18-20 days, a minor relapse does nothing to me mostly... still happy, confident, outgoing, etc (i.e. less anxiety is maintained). ---of course prolactin effects and serum test is there.
-Also, not saying you don't have structure, you obviously do... doing well for a 25 yr old, man!! Esp, considering poor health state before bc of fin. ---but for ADD or not, doing really well, I'd say.
-ALSO, always every major gain... for me, brought times of more anxiety, and other issues (like insomnia), digestion changes.
-After like 20 days of insomnia (not up 20 d straight, but pretty bad),... better urology? WHY?? I don't know.
--SOUND crazy to some... but I think the beauty is in 300-1200 days. -- THIS IS EXTREME, and hard for me... and likely most kids/men who grew up with the net and instagram, and hoes everywhere, and all kinds of shyt, BET, etc. 90 days is decent. Repairing Dopamine takes longer than that for me (previous substance use, exercise addiction (feel good opiates etc there I think).
---I'll try that and yeah some PFS gains, even a lot at times... but more importantly, I'm thinking about LIFE after PFS, and in spite of everything before at times too.
--YEAH, relapsing didn't stop R-Andro, 4-Andro, etc from working, nor RU (if someone did it 90 x in a row, certainly bad for a person). Even sex 10-12h in a day would mess up a person, esp with reversing shrinkage (and pain assoc.) with that.
--BUT*** still results.
--NOFAP was easy on fin several weeks lol... but that's a different story (pain etc). Before and Later, actually pretty hard still.
---AGAIN, this is only possibly important for guys with MAJOR addiction issues... a tiny bit of an addictive personality, who cares really (I think).
---I mean I quit coke like 3-5 yrs, but still think about it... Only after 3-4mo do I not think about and even disliking alcohol takes several days of sobriety.
-Number of days don't matter, everyday is Day#1.
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