So i'm finally over my break up, took about 7 months, and I've been taking "a heaping mouthful of cruel reality to swallow" in the form of red-pills lately
simultaneously the amount of pussy in my life is going up through the roof, i think as a direct result of it.
Basically I started reading this stuff, and it free'd me mentally to start dating again, I organising a tone of dates during week days lol
Anxious as all hell going on them, but after each one I got more and more comfortable.
Lead me to the conclusion:
people respond to confidence, but we don't want to chase confidence, we want the root of confidence. Confidence is a by-product of experience, and experience is gained through courage. Courage, being anxious / unsure / whatever, and doing it anyway, that is the root, motherfuckers.
some curious pills i took this morning:
>men are the romantics pretending to be realists, and women are realists pretending to be romantics
>men need to be the most dominant gender because on some rudimentary psychological level, we ought to realise that a womans love is contingent upon our capacity to maintain that love in spite of a womans hypergamy. Hypergamy will define who a woman loves and who she will not, depending upon her own oppourtunities and capacity to attract it.
*replace "love" with "attraction", outside the context of a LTR.
>Hypergamy is more responsive to social dynamic (i.e. strong eye contact, making risky moves) rather than status (in a material sense like money). A womans imagination is your best friend, don't tell her much, and dont 'spill the beans' by over sharing. don't give her reasons to not be attracted to you.
I think after reading all this stuff, I was definately putting women on a pedalstool. But having been through this recent breakup, and now understanding what was happening, LOL, theyre not on a pedistool anymore. And women seem to love not being up there.
I feel like my posts are sounding more like yours
@MNK99 brah,
gotta take care of yourself first: career, health, whatever the fuck you need
women are the side game, and this is the only way they can exist long-term, they will be attracted to you 1000% more by being a side game
"bitches come and go but the wu-tang is forever"