Yo. ORGANIZIZATION???

[MNK99]

-1. 1 hour.
-2. 2hours.
-3. 2-6hrs.
-4. 14 hrs.
-5. 10-30mins.
-5. Depends on the day. Sometimes 15mins sometimes not ready till 5am next day.
-6. Are you on time?
-6.1. ALways.
-6.2. Never.
-6.3. I'll get there when I damn well please. "yeah, yeah, I'm stuck in traffic! It's a nitemare out there!!!"
-7. Do you prefer being the only one in the kitchen to avoid accidents?
-7.1 Yes.
-7.2 No.
-8. 5-10 yrs.
-9. I was born ready.
-10. All of the above. -Please explain.
-11. None of the above. - Please explain.
-12. A couple shots, lines, shave, shower. @Helen.
*Ready implies showered, suit clothes, gym, tan, laundry.
-13. POLL IS TOO CONFUSING. -Explain yourself.
-14. I lost my towel. REward: Shower.
-15. Every Year is 1979.

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REAL ANSWERS ONLY. (IN NORMAL / OPTIMAL HEALTH).

 

[HerrFisch]

Not sure if you seriously need that information, and why you would make a poll out of it (but not actually using the poll option - Life could be easy) :d

1. 1 hour.
-2. 2hours.
-3. 2-6hrs.
-4. 14 hrs.
-5. 10-30mins.
-5. Depends on the day. Sometimes 15mins sometimes not ready till 5am next day.
-6. Are you on time?
-6.1. ALways.
-6.2. Never.
-6.3. I'll get there when I damn well please. "yeah, yeah, I'm stuck in traffic! It's a nitemare out here!!!"
-7. Do you prefer being the only one in the kitchen to avoid accidents?
-7.1 Yes.
-7.2 No.
-8. 5-10 yrs.
-9. I was born ready.
-10. All of the above. -Please explain.
-11. None of the above. - Please explain.
-12. A couple shots, lines, shave, shower.
*Ready implies showered, suit clothes, gym, tan, laundry.
-13. POLL IS TOO CONFUSING.
-14. I lost my towel. REward: Shower.

 

[supernature]

-15. Every Year is 1979.

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[MNK99]

Yeah my wrists still hurt from various things that happened plus overtraining, and or collagen issues. So, poll is too difficult to construct and if this was a class or paid work or something I would, it's just too difficult rite now. So not really a poll, but rather a list. This will likely hurt respondent rates, but it is what it is. I may change it later.

-1. 1 hour. --as a kid 90mins.
-2. 2hours. --as an adult in great health 50mins-2hrs.
-3. 2-6hrs. -- when distracted.
-4. 14 hrs. --super hyperfocused on other things.
-5. 10-30mins. --super late, no room for error. 2hrs included commute. Well 2.5hrs with commute much of 20's. Myb 3hrs. Shower 9mins-26mins max. Unless hiding.
-5. Depends on the day. Sometimes 15mins sometimes not ready till 5am next day. --ya.
-6. Are you on time? --no.
-6.1. ALways. -- to the things that count, exams, interviews, some dates... they're late too so who cares, if she's really cool then on time basically.
-6.2. Never. --yes.
-6.3. I'll get there when I damn well please. "yeah, yeah, I'm stuck in traffic! It's a nitemare out here!!!" --correct.
-7. Do you prefer being the only one in the kitchen to avoid accidents? --yes.
-7.1 Yes.
-7.2 No.
-8. 5-10 yrs.
-9. I was born ready. - -Yes.
-10. All of the above. -Please explain. --I did.
-11. None of the above. - Please explain. --I did.
-12. A couple shots, lines, shave, shower. @Helen. ---22-24 maybe 25 and some other yrs a bit, during high stress/deadlines. Possibly hi 19-23-24 pre shower/buzzed.
*Ready implies showered, suit clothes, gym, tan, laundry.
-13. POLL IS TOO CONFUSING. -Explain yourself. --You suck.
-14. I lost my towel. REward: Shower. --1/3 of days sometimes 1/20.
-15. Every Year is 1979. --- Yes, or Dec. 1st 1983 [Scarface Release Date]. 1984. or late 90's.

Bold every answer that applies to you or use color.
REAL ANSWERS ONLY. (IN NORMAL / OPTIMAL HEALTH).

-When working out, 2-3 showers usually. Crazy fast digestion then 4. If too tired, 1-2.

 

[health]

Thanks @MNK99
Weirdly, I feel more sane than ever...

As for the topic - I get up and immediately drink water+get to work.

 

[MNK99]

1. Talking about me, then you, then me again:

-WTF?! What about shower, hair, man wax, face shave, finding shoes, coffee, supps (if taking them), running up and down the stairs, looking out for intruders, checking temperature, and mails, emails, phone, organizing, fixing bed, deodorant, cologne, etc????? Brushing, flossing, gargling, washroom, grapefruit juice?
-Do you eat in public or something??
-Lotions, eye cream, blow dryer?

-Laundry, dishes?
-I started using this for studying, for work, and for showering, and getting out of the house:https://amzn.to/2wiJfqS
- A timer cube. -Now I feel weird.

-During exams or if it was interesting work, I would take black coffee, water, and one more thing, and then gtfo too, but shower and stuff, still 50-70mins. Sugar to fuel the attentional tank. Baking soda, then the other stuff, then go shower, shave, change, get out.

-6-14hrs was studying/ learning school myself/ trading/ sex addiction/ drugs, etc.
-My sis did 10mins too and brother... but they also wore scrubs for medical work, and showered again later. I'm super fast or super lost.
AH WELL. Positive baseline. Above baseline in many respects.

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2. Talking to you, then back to myself:

-Keep in mind my last school was a 2.167 hr and then a 48-90 commute (when I moved and used UBER).. And I couldn't stand it... and I was jacked up for 60% of those degrees, and then I calmed down a bit.
-Toronto = HORRIBLE TRAFFIC.

-I never ate breakfast most of last decade, still took that long.
-Matching socks would be another 20m so I just make sure they're the same color, getting better at that. Just throw them away and start fresh.
-What are you, a robot?????!!!!! You're a damn machine @health. You don't feel!!! Damn you, emote! Emote, damn you!!!

-I better make sure to live near work/school. Jesus.
-THE DREAM ---> SHOWER AND BED IN YOUR OFFICE!!!

 

[MNK99]

Also @health, It's BECAUSE YOU DO NOT EMOTE!!! WHEN NOT EMOTING I TAKE 20m-1hr. MORE IF YOU INCL LOCKING THE DOOR AND RUNNING LIKE HELL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[supernature]

What about shower, hair, man wax, face shave, finding shoes, coffee, supps (if taking them), running up and down the stairs, looking out for intruders, checking temperature, and mails, emails, phone, organizing, fixing bed, deodorant, cologne, etc????? Brushing, flossing, gargling, washroom, grapefruit juice?

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[MNK99]

I can't ride bikes... Prolly drive off a cliff or over other cars. Def ppl.

 

[supernature]

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[MNK99]

- @joekool you're friend with some similar issues as me, what kind of things do they do for organization? (cutting off net is great! I know).
- I'd PM you or continue convo but I deleted all convos/ focus-wise. I am open to new convos tho, I just do the same with emails, phone calls, and texts like daily or nearly.
- I do use mental and also physical timers; when I'm doing well... but usually just run like hell get as m done as I can pre deadlines at nites or... sometimes morning like now. this may not last super long tho, I'll keep at it tho. i hope you're well and your friend too, mate. Thx.

- @Niles, have you ever done Work and School same time? Like "Normal office work" + university (+)?
- Or more "your own work/ independent work" + School?
-I've done the later... First was pretty messed up / did not last long but I'm better now. I did as a kid a bit but it was easier... I fully expect my prof. stuff to go smoother than science and econ, considering I actually know wtf is up with me... and won't do anything stupid like commute 2hrs this time, or not actually even check out the school first.

 

[joekool]

bro I don't have a good system at all for organization... I can say I removed all social media (Facebook, etc) about 8 years ago but obviously joined these forums to search for assistance with my PFS healing... and the time I spent devoted to checking on my exes was then spent on my resume, training and landed a great career. So I would say focus on what's got value and try to stop yourself from mindlessly scrolling thru Instagram & Facebook feeds... delete that stuff... I'm on this forum to help myself and others, which I believe in and value that time... but not watching ppl I don't know (or ppl I do who I know are fake) pose with cars they don't really own or houses they rented for a night...

I know you had some career aspirations, make sure you stay on that 100%... and life will always be a juggling act... just make sure what's in the air matters & aren't worth dropping...

I'm hoping I'm answering what you're asking bro...

 

[MNK99]

bro I don't have a good system at all for organization... I can say I removed all social media (Facebook, etc) about 8 years ago but obviously joined these forums to search for assistance with my PFS healing... and the time I spent devoted to checking on my exes was then spent on my resume, training and landed a great career. So I would say focus on what's got value and try to stop yourself from mindlessly scrolling thru Instagram & Facebook feeds... delete that stuff... I'm on this forum to help myself and others, which I believe in and value that time... but not watching ppl I don't know (or ppl I do who I know are fake) pose with cars they don't really own or houses they rented for a night...

-Yeah bro still have them... only really decided 2-3 yrs ago and possible 1.5yrs ago... or so... so yeah will 1000000% stay on that for sure. )))
True man.
-I do go a bit extreme; and yeah cant cut off literally everyone incl dating and stuff. --did in pssd and pfs at times; and also when relearning everything/ school at times.
-but less in recent yrs; still ya for sure in finals or interviews, just feel it's bad luck o/w.
-ALSO I did cut off social media at 21 / 22 bc of the trouble I got into and after dating and drinking and stuff a year or so after that, definitely cut it off again.
-I'd only use most that for work/ school, if it seems I'm the only person not there; even then I don't care lol.
-SELF-INVESTMENT is the #1 key esp in time on ourselves, as a man.
-Fake car photos yeah man lol, bunch of clowns. It's human nature.
-Kind of...

-Yeah man I use RPM Rapid Planning Method plus stim, and or choline, or coffee, sometimes nothing, or 1-3d break a week when really busy/ zero like in school past and future
-and also Gkeep and Tick Tick (for notes and events and also day to day/ repeating tasks, respectively). IT OFTEN works well, but yes, need to do it like 40-100d straight... to build the habit. Thanks man.